Once 3 Sardars decided to go on a picnic.

When they got there, they realized that they had forgot the soda.

The youngest Sardar said he would go home & get it if they wouldn't eat the snacks until he got back.



The other two agreed to wait patiently.



An hour went by,

Then a Day,

followed by a week,

a month,

finally a year...



the 2 Sardars said

'oh, come on, let's eat the snacks'

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Suddenly the Young Sardar popped up from behind a rock and said



'If you do like this, I won't go.'

Pathar bana dia mujhe rone nahin diya
damaan bhi tere gham ne bighone nahin diya

tanhaiyan tumhara pata poochhti rahe
shaab bhar tumhari yaad ne sone nahin diya

ankhon me aakar baith gayi aansoon ki lehar
palkon me is khwaab ne rone nahin diya

dil ko tumhare naam ke ansoon aziz the
duniya ka dard dil me samane nahin diya

har kadam yoon uski yaad chali haath thaam ke
mele me is jahan ke mujhe khone nahin diya

When I lost my husband it was just in a fraction of second, I was not concious for next 2 days..........and above all I was not aware that I have lost him................till date deep in my heart I have a regret that I am not able to see him, not even for last time............he left me without even saying a single word.............there were lot of things I need to tell him ................Only if I could turn back the time............................only if..............

If I knew it would be the last time That I'd see you fall asleep, I would tuck you in more tightly and pray the Lord, your soul to keep. If I knew it would be the last time that I see you walk out the door, I would give you a hug and kiss and call you back for one more. If I knew it would be the last time I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise, I would video tape each action and word, so I could play them back day after day.
If I knew it would be the last time, I could spare an extra minute or two to stop and say "I love you," instead of assuming you would KNOW I do If I knew it would be the last time I would be there to share your day, well I'm sure you'll have so many more, so I can let just this one slip away. For surely there's always tomorrow to make up for an oversight, and we always get a second chance to make everything right.

There will always be another day to say our "I love you's," And certainly there's another chance to say our "Anything I can do's?" But just in case I might be wrong, and today is all I get, I'd like to say how much I love you and I hope we never forget. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike, And today may be the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight So if you're waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today? For if tomorrow never comes, you'll surely regret the day, That you didn't take that extra time for a smile, a hug, or a kiss and you were too busy to grant someone, what turned out to be their one last wish.

So hold your loved ones close today, and whisper in their ear, Tell them how much you love them and that you'll always hold them dear Take time to say "I'm sorry," "Please forgive me," "Thank you," or "It's okay." And if tomorrow never comes, you'll have no regrets about today.

It is easier to criticize, but difficult to improve

The story behind ORKUT!!!

A sobbing little girl stood near a small church from which she had
been turned away because it was "too crowded."
"I can't go to Sunday School," she sobbed to the pastor as he walked by.
Seeing her shabby, unkempt appearance, the pastor guessed the reason and, taking her by the hand, took her inside and found a place for her in the Sunday school class. The child was so happy that they found room for her, and she went to bed that night thinking of the children who have no place to worship Jesus.
Some two years later, this child lay dead in one of the poor tenement buildings. Her parents called for the kindhearted pastor who had befriended their daughter to handle the final arrangements.
As her poor little body was being moved, a worn and crumpled red purse was found which seemed to have been rummaged from some trash dump.
Inside was found 57 cents and a note, scribbled in childish handwriting, which read: "This is to help build the little church bigger so more children can go to Sunday School."
For two years she had saved for this offering of love.
When the pastor tearfully read that note, he knew instantly what he would do. Carrying this note and the cracked, red pocketbook to the pulpit, he told the story of her unselfish love and devotion.
He challenged his deacons to get busy and raise enough money for the larger building.
But the story does not end there...
A newspaper learned of the story and published it. It was read by a wealthy realtor who offered them a parcel of land worth many thousands.
When told that the church could not pay so much, he offered to sell it to the little church for 57 cents.
Church members made large donations. Checks came from far and wide.
Within five years the little girl's gift had increased to $250,000.00--a huge sum for that time (near the turn of the century). Her unselfish love had paid large dividends.
When you are! in the city of Philadelphia, look up Temple Baptist Church, with a seating capacity of 3,300. And be sure to visit Temple University, where thousands of students are educated.
Have a look, too, at the Good Samaritan Hospital and at a Sunday School building which houses hundreds of beautiful children, built so that no child in the area will ever need to be left outside during Sunday School time.
In one of the rooms of this building may be seen the picture of the sweet face of the little girl whose 57 cents, so sacrificially saved, made such remarkable history. Alongside of it is a portrait of her kind pastor, Dr. Russel H. Conwell, author of the book,
"Acres of Diamonds"

Why It Is So Hard To Let Go

The cheerful girl with bouncy golden curls was almost five. Waiting with her mother at the checkout stand, she saw them: a circle of glistening white pearls in a pink foil box.

"Oh please, Mommy. Can I have them? Please, Mommy, please?" Quickly the mother checked the back of the little foil box and then looked back into the pleading blue eyes of her little girl's upturned face. "A dollar ninety-five. That's almost $2.00. If you really want them, I'll think of some extra chores for you and in no time you can save enough money to buy them for yourself. Your birthday's only a week away and you might get another crisp dollar bill from Grandma."

As soon as Jenny got home, she emptied her penny bank and counted out 17 pennies. After dinner, she did more than her share of chores and she went to the neighbor and asked Mrs. McJames if she could pick dandelions for ten cents.

On her birthday, Grandma did give her another new dollar bill and at last she had enough money to buy the necklace.

Jenny loved her pearls. They made her feel dressed up and grown up. She wore them everywhere - Sunday school, kindergarten, even to bed. The only time she took them off was when she went swimming or had a bubble bath. Mother said if they got wet, they might turn her neck green.

Jenny had a very loving daddy and every night when she was ready for bed, he would stop whatever he was doing and come upstairs to read her a story. One night when he finished the story, he asked Jenny, "Do you love me?" "Oh yes, Daddy. You know that I love you." "Then give me your pearls." "Oh, Daddy, not my pearls. But you can have Princess - the white horse from my collection. The one with the pink tail. Remember, Daddy? The one you gave me. She's my favorite." "That's okay, Honey. Daddy loves you. Good night." And he brushed her cheek with a kiss.

About a week later, after the story time, Jenny's daddy asked again, "Do you love me?" "Daddy, you know I love you." "Then give me your pearls." "Oh Daddy, not my pearls. But you can have my baby doll. The brand new one I got for my birthday. She is so beautiful and you can have the yellow blanket that matches her sleeper." "That's okay. Sleep well. God bless you, little one. Daddy loves you" And as always, he brushed her cheek with a gentle kiss.

A few nights later when her daddy came in, Jenny was sitting on her bed with her legs crossed Indian-style. As he came close, he noticed her chin was trembling and one silent tear rolled down her cheek. "What is it, Jenny? What's the matter?" Jenny didn't say anything but lifted her little hand up to her daddy. And when she opened it, there was her little pearl necklace. With a little quiver, she finally said, "Here, Daddy. It's for you."

With tears gathering in his own eyes, Jenny's kind daddy reached out with one hand to take the dime-store necklace, and with the other hand he reached into his pocket and pulled out a blue velvet case with a strand of genuine pearls and gave them to Jenny. He had them all the time. He was just waiting for her to give up the dime-store stuff so he could give her genuine treasure.

So it is with our Heavenly Father. He is waiting for us to give up the cheap things in our lives so that he can give us beautiful treasure. Isn't God good?

Are you holding onto things which God wants you to let go of. Are you holding on to harmful or unnecessary partners, relationships, habits and activities which you have come so attached to that it seems impossible to let go? Sometimes it is so hard to see what is in the other hand but do believe this one thing.............

God will never take away something without giving you something better in ....return......

A long time ago, there was a huge apple tree. A little boy loved to come and play around it everyday. He climbed the tree top, ate the apples, and took a nap under the shadow... He loved the tree and the tree loved to play with him. Time went by... the little boy had grown up and he no longer played around the tree everyday.

One day, the boy came back to the tree and he looked sad."

Come and play with me," the tree asked the boy." I am no longer a kid; I don't play around trees anymore." The boy replied, "I want toys. I need money to buy them."

The tree said, "Sorry, but I don't have money... but you can pick all my apples and sell them. So, you will have money." The boy was so excited. He grabbed all the apples on the tree and left happily. The boy never came back after he picked the apples. The tree was sad.

One day, the boy returned and the tree was so excited."

Come and play with me," the tree said. The boy said, "I don't have time to play. I have to work for my family. We need a house for shelter. Can you help me?" "Sorry, but I don't have a house. But you can chop off my branches to build your house." So the boy cut all the branches of the tree and left happily.

The tree was glad to see him happy but the boy never came back since then. The tree was again lonely and sad.

One hot summer day, the boy returned and the tree was delighted." Come and play with me!" the tree said.

"I am sad and getting old. I want to go sailing to relax myself. Can you give me a boat?" said the boy. "Use my truck to build your boat. You can sail far away and be
happy." So the boy cut the tree truck to make a boat. He went sailing and never showed up for a long time.

Finally, the boy returned after he left for so many years. "Sorry, my boy, but I don't have anything for you anymore. No more apples for you... "The tree said." I don't have teeth to bite" the boy replied. "No more truck for you to climb on"

"I am too old for that now" the boy said. "I really can't give you anything ... the only thing left is my dying roots" the tree said with tears. "I don't need much now, just a place to
rest. I am tired after all these years." The boy replied.

"Good! Old tree roots are the best place to lean on and rest. Come, Come sit down with me and rest." The boy sat down and the tree was glad and smiled with tears...

This is a story of everyone. You may think the boy
is cruel to the tree but that's how all of us are treating our parent.

When we were young, we loved to play with Mom and Dad... When we grew up, we left them... only came to them when we needed something or when we were in trouble. No matter what, parents will always be there and give everything they could to make you happy.

Remember Parents give children their ALL, all children can give them in turn is LOVE.

Tell your parents how thankful you are and you love them.

EXPRESS YOUR LOVE IN TIME..............

Apparently, they are there to file a divorce.Lawyer was very puzzled,
after having a chat with them, he got their story....



This couple had been quarreling all their 40 over yrs of marriage nothing
ever seems to go right.They hang on because of their children, afraid that
it might affect their up-bringing. Now, all their children have already grown up,
have their own family, there's nothing else the old couple have to worry about,
all they wanted is to lead their own life free from all these years of unhappiness
from their marriage, so both agree on a divorce....



Lawyer was having a hard time trying to get the papers done,
because he felt that after 40 yrs of marriage at the age of 70,
he couldn't understand why the old couple would still want a divorce..




While they were signing the papers, the wife told the husband..




"I really love u, but I really cant carry on anymore, I'm sorry.."




"Its o.k, I understand.." said the husband. Lookin at this, the lawyer
suggested a dinner together, just 3 of them,wife thought,
why not, since they are still gonna be friends..




At the dining table, there was a silence of awkardness.




The first dish was roasted chicken, immediately, the old man took the drumstick
for the old lady.."take this, its your favourite.."




Looking at this, the lawyer thought maybe theres still a chance, but the wife
was frowning when she answer.."This is always the problem, you always think
so highly of yourself, never thought about how I feel,
don't you know that I hate drumsticks?"




Little did she know that, over the years, the husband have been trying
all ways to please her, little did she know that drumsticks was the husband's
favourite. Little did he know that she never thought he understand her at all,
little did he know that she hates drummsticks even though all he wants is the best for her.




That night, both of them couldn't sleep, toss and turn, toss and turn...after hours,
the old man couldn't take it anymore, he knows that he still loves her,
and he cant carry on life without her, he wants her back, he wants to tell her,
he is sorry, he wanted to tell her "I love you"...




He picks up the phone, starting dialing her number....ringing never stops..he never stop dialing....
On the other side, she was sad, she couldn't understand how come after all these years,
he still doesn't understand her at all, she loves him a lot, but she just cant take it anymore....
phone's ringing, she refuses to answer knowing that its him...
"whats the point of talking now that its over...I have ask for it and now
I wanna keep it this way, if not I will lose face.."she thought...still ringing...
she have decided to pull out the cord... Little did she remember,
he have heart problems...




The next day, she received news that he had passed away...
she rushed down to his apartment, saw his body, lying on the couch still holding on to the phone...
he had a heart attack when he was still trying to get through her phone line....




As sad as she could be...she will have to clear his belongings.. .when she was looking
thru the drawers, she saw this insurance policy, dated from the day they got married,
with the beneficiary being her... And together in those file, there was this note...







"To my dearest wife, by the time you're reading this, I'm sure I'm no longer around,
I bought this policy for you, though the amount is only $100k, I hope it will be able
to help me continue my promise that I have made when we got married, I might not
be around anymore, I want this amount of money to continue taking care of you,
just like the way I will if I could have live longer. I want you to know Iwill always be around,
by your side... I love you"




Tears flowed like river......




"When you love someone, let them know... You never know what will happen the next minute....
Learn to build a life together.. Learn to love each other. For who they are.. Not what they are..."